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Talk It Out

Talk it Out!

Conflict Resolution/Problem Solving

(Step by step directions)

 

  • The first step of Talk It Out is…

 Stop & Cool Off.                                                                    

   Are you cooled off and do you want to Talk it Out?

 

  • The second step of Talk It Out is…

          Talk and Listen using “I” statements.

         First you talk… “I feel _____ when you_____.” Now you listen.
        
         The other person talks… “I feel_____when you____.”

 

  • The third step of Talk it Out is…

         Think of ways to solve the problem – using “I” statements.

  What can you do to solve the problem? “I can _____.”

  Now the other person thinks of ways to solve the problem… “I can______________”.

 

  • The fourth step of Talk it Out is…

          Choose the idea you both like!

   You - “Do you like the ideas?” 

   Other person - “Do you like the ideas?”

 

Congratulations! You solved your conflict!